Tuesday 8 May 2012

7 months

It's seven months today since Noah passed away. I knew it was coming up, but I didn't realise until half way through Pump class at the gym this morning what the date was.   I lent over and said to Simone 'it's the 8th!' and we then worked out that it was seven months.

I was glad when I realised what the date was, that I already had a lovely day planned.  Kobe and I spent the day with our friend Nicole, who was Noah's first carer ever. She worked in our home for years when Noah was little, and we loved having her as his carer so much.  We missed her when she had to leave.

It was nice to spend some time with her, to talk about everything that has happened.  It's just so hard to get my head around that it seven months since Noah passed away, but Aaron is gone too.  I continue to wonder what they are up to, whether they are close by all the time and if Aaron's broken heart has mended now they are together. 

It's hard to believe that just over seven months ago we were dressing Noah's body for his funeral, and we were grieving together.

Now a third of the family isn't here, and it's eighteen more days until it's been four months since Aaron passed away.    It's unbelievable even as I type it.


8 comments:

  1. What precious images and what a heart felt post. My thoughts are with you Lisa xx

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  2. Siiiiigh. I've been thinking of him (and you) all day too. And Aaron. I found a video on youtube of a boy who looked sooooo much like Noah. I'll show you if you want to see it (some of the comments are like the ones on that rotten forum, though; but I know better than those dummies).

    I'm sure they're both so safe and comfortable together, but that they both miss you and the boys so much too.

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  3. such touching pictures. many hugs and prayers.

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  4. I couldn't think of a better way to spend the day- with someone who loved(s) Noah right from when the journey first began. xxx

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  5. I am so thankful for your blog and the memories of Noah and Aaron that you share xxx Love you x

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  6. It really is unbelievable Lisa. Love you xxx

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  7. Hugs to you...

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  8. Such tender and precious photos. 7 months. Where does time go? Wow. love you xxx

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