Ever since I took Japanese in Year 11 at Don College, I became obsessed with everything Japanese. I loved learning about the language and culture and knew that one day I would love to travel to Japan. That 'one day' just kept getting further and further away as I was a poor uni student, we were a poor young married couple and then a family struggling to just pay for the things we needed every day, as we only ever had one income coming in.
I never imagined travelling without Aaron (and he would've preferred to have travelled to the USA instead of Asia) but something just sparked within me when I was 49 and I decided that I had made enough excuses about travelling overseas on my own (too hard, too expensive, too stressful) and I decided to finally plan a trip to
Japan for my 50th.
It was definitely the trip of a lifetime, and I loved Japan more than I ever expected. I was blown away with the technology, history, language, culture, people, scenery and food. I was so happy that all three boys wanted to come (Harri wasn't so sure at first) and the longer that we were home from our first trip, and the more we talked about it, we realised how incredible it was and wanted to go back.
I'd see lots of flight deals pop up after our first trip and would check them out and dream about going back but in reality, I didn't think we would be back so soon. One day I got home from work and Harri's girlfriend Melissa mentioned that QANTAS had flight deals in the school holidays. I had already seen the deals during the day, and just didn't think much of it, but when Melissa mentioned it I suddenly just thought 'why not'.
I thought it's only money and I had come home from my first trip with some money as the trip didn't cost as much as I thought it would be. I quickly put on the family chat that I was keen to book tickets and to see who was going to come back with me (the boys with full-time jobs help pay for their flights and activities and food in Japan) and I was so happy that everyone was keen!
We booked the tickets last October and our trip wasn't going to be until April, but that would give us time to save up. I told Melissa she was very welcome to join us on our trip if she was keen and she kept saying no because it was a 'family trip' but we'd already had our family trip to Japan and we were so keen to show her why we loved Japan so much, so I was so happy when she decided to book to come as well.
April actually came up very quickly and we were so excited to go back. We met Jalen in Melbourne and stayed there overnight in a hotel close to the airport, before catching an early flight from Melbourne, into Sydney and then from Sydney to Tokyo.
Melissa had made up some little packs to give to the flight attendants with special treats and useful things in them, and they absolutely loved it and treated her and Harri so well, giving them special little gifts such as the QANTAS pyjamas and caps and keyrings. When we landed in Tokyo they asked Melissa and Harri if they wanted to have a look in the cockpit and these two airport workers were very happy.
On our first trip we flew Jetstar which was fine, but we absolutely loved flying QANTAS.
We arrived in Tokyo (Narita airport) about 8:30 pm and had to catch to the train to get to Asakusa so that we could get to our accommodation which was an Airbnb. The train got extremely busy, so I was glad when we could finally get off and was so excited to see Senso Ji as it's one of my favourite places in Tokyo.
It was so nice to walk through at night as it wasn't busy and it really hit me that we were actually back in Japan and I couldn't wait for the next couple of weeks. I felt so much less stressed this time round and knew we could just get straight into sightseeing and doing what we wanted to do as we knew how easy it was to catch trains and get around.
We found our Airbnb and dropped off our luggage and then headed straight to the closest 7 Eleven near our accommodation so Melissa could experience it for the first time. We grabbed our favourite snacks and then headed back to hopefully get a good sleep, before our first full day in Japan.
Melissa and Harri's room was right through a sliding door to my room, so there were lots of laughs as we chatted through the wall at night. They were excited to wear their new QANTAS pyjamas.
The next morning, I woke up so excited to get out and about. I think the whole trip I just kept thinking 'I can't believe I'm back in Japan!!'. I already knew this trip would be awesome as Harri had struggled a little bit during our first trip as he had concussion and found it to be over stimulating at times. As the trip went on, he settled into it and started to enjoy it more, but this time he was looking forward to everything from the start and couldn't wait to see it through Melissa's eyes since it was her first trip there.


There is nothing better than a second bucket list to Japan, than being there the same time as one of your best friends and cousin's family. When Simone told me they were also planning a trip to Japan and South Korea in April, we had hoped our dates would line up but didn't plan our trips around each other. Once we had finished planning, we got together to see if there were any days that we could meet up while in Japan and we were so excited that there were a few days, when we would be in the same city.
We met them at the Asakusa Tourist Information Centre and went up to the free lookout before jumping on the train together.
They had arrived a couple of days before us and done the big touristy things in central Tokyo including Shibuya and Shinjuku. On this trip I wanted to show Melissa all the touristy things and places we went to on our first trip, but I also wanted to see some different places and do more day trips. I had heard that Kamakura was a great, easy day trip from Tokyo, so that's what I had planned to do with Simone and Simon and their family.
It took about an hour on the train, and our first stop was Komachi street which is full of food stalls.
We then walked to Tsurugaoka Hachimangu where we did the purification ritual before going up to the shrine.
If you ever want a great travel companion who will bring you lots of laughs, you need to travel with Jalen.
We took lots of photos with the sake barrels.
We jumped on a train for a short ride to the area near the beach and from there we walked to Kotoku-in which I was the most excited about seeing.
It cost 300 yen (about $3) to go inside the temple. The giant Bhudda was incredible and looked a lot bigger in real life. Kobe and I paid 50 yen to go inside the statue (about 50 cents) and people were inside praying and touching the sides.
We then walked to Hase-dera which was also beautiful and had so many special little areas in the grounds to see.
The temple had incredible statues inside, but you are asked not to take photos inside.
There were lovely views of Kamakura from the top of the hill.
There were even caves in the temple grounds, which you could walk through, and they also had incredible statues inside.
The whole temple grounds were so beautiful, and I was so glad that we made the trip to Kamakura as there was so much to see and do, and it was all very close to each other.
Everything about Japan excites me and I loved seeing these cute schoolgirls in their uniforms with their matching bags at the train station.
It was a very packed train ride back to Asakusa.
We said goodbye to Simon and Simone as they headed back to their accommodation and knew we would be meeting up again in Kyoto and I couldn't wait to see them again. Spending our first day back in Japan was the best day, and I felt so lucky to be back there again, with the boys, Melissa and my extended family and one of my best friends.
I loved walking around Asakusa that night, just taking in all the sights that seemed so familiar because we spent a lot of time there on our first trip which was only 15 months before this trip.
We finished off the day with getting Ichiran for dinner (unfortunately they couldn't fit us in individual booths which is half the fun) and then we got some of our favourite ice creams at the konbini before heading back to our accommodation.

I went to bed feeling so happy that we had almost two weeks ahead of us in such an incredible place.