Our bedroom changed a lot after Noah passed away and we gave away his hospital bed, and took back his other equipment. It was the first time that we had ever had a 'normal' bedroom, and the first time we'd ever had the bedroom to ourselves in ten years (until Harri decided to join us). It wasn't a change that we liked though.
Although I still have all of Aaron's things, I just wanted to sort them out early on. It was hard to open up the wardrobe and see all of his clothes in their usual spots - like he could just walk in the bedroom and put them on. I have since put all of his clothes to the top of the wardrobe and went out and bought another blanket box, and put all of his extra special things into it. Although it's bigger than Noah's it was over flowing with things as he was very sentimental and kept a lot of things, which I'm so grateful for now. He has such beautiful cards from students, messages they have written in books, cards from the boys, photos, old records, his old teddy 'Woody' from when he was a baby and lots of sports geurnseys which I will hold onto for the boys.
Noah's box now sits at the end of my bed.