I've been thinking a lot about how different your 3rd and 4th child is to the first two. With Jalen we spent so much time with him all day, every day. With Kobe we spend time when we can, and if we do get some time just to play, it is really nice.
Sometimes I wish I had more time just to spend playing with him, but he doesn't mind as he has great big brothers who entertain him. Today Kobe was grizzling and we were busy, so Jay grabbed hold of him and started talking to him. Kobe thought it was THE best!
It's nice this time that if I am busy and Kobe is grizzling I can just yell out to Harri or Jay to go and talk to him, and most times it settles him right down. It's great to have free babysitters! ;)