tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post2881310292385253280..comments2024-01-10T18:49:06.282+11:00Comments on The Kings: Moving OnThe Kingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18086956817658615731noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-50977366590411658332011-11-20T21:27:23.772+11:002011-11-20T21:27:23.772+11:00I've never seen so many comments on your blog ...I've never seen so many comments on your blog before. It must be because so many people care xx I think about you ALL the time. If you knew how much you and your family were on my mind and in my prayers, you would think I was a stalker. Love you guys, hope you continue to feel loved in little ways for forever...benny.thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10862005173827259545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-14732607518385137452011-11-20T15:54:45.343+11:002011-11-20T15:54:45.343+11:00It breaks my heart to see you all so sad.. I think...It breaks my heart to see you all so sad.. I think about Noah all the time. It is awful when others 'move on'. Love you guys xxxThe Jackshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07948554232045147675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-60206269018561165442011-11-19T17:49:07.189+11:002011-11-19T17:49:07.189+11:00I thankyou for sharing Noah with us all that never...I thankyou for sharing Noah with us all that never knew him in person. <br /><br />Every morning before I even have my morning coffee I go on facebook to see your new photo's of NOAH. <br /><br />I have had many tears and lots of smile's reading your blog's right back to the very first one.<br /><br />My thought's are with you all xxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-20474640146874493882011-11-19T17:07:05.842+11:002011-11-19T17:07:05.842+11:00Noah will NEVER be forgotten - it would be IMPOSSI...Noah will NEVER be forgotten - it would be IMPOSSIBLE to forget him! <br /><br />Harri's face just breaks my heart - so much sadness for such a little person. <br /><br />Thinking of you always.EDS Warriorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00033215432772656875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-51857057859058829862011-11-19T14:45:52.361+11:002011-11-19T14:45:52.361+11:00i don't know who you guys are, but i check in ...i don't know who you guys are, but i check in and read this blog everyday. i feel for you and your significant loss. you will always be in my thoughts and my heart. hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-91638842356988725792011-11-19T12:37:29.038+11:002011-11-19T12:37:29.038+11:00It's hard to see Harri so sad and hard sometim...It's hard to see Harri so sad and hard sometimes to read your blog (but I do!) because moving on and making a life without Noah is hard and not something you want to do. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers often. Thanks for sharing how you are feeling. Love, Penny xxPenny B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07558762585395473360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-66002842845570432042011-11-19T11:15:46.327+11:002011-11-19T11:15:46.327+11:00Breaks my heart to see Harri so sad. You guys are...Breaks my heart to see Harri so sad. You guys are in our thoughts and prayers. Noah will never be forgotten. Sending hugs and love.Juniorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03719754876592849914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-82845678900789871052011-11-19T09:05:21.277+11:002011-11-19T09:05:21.277+11:00aw, im sorry harri has been feeling like that, it ...aw, im sorry harri has been feeling like that, it must be so hard for him to understand. thinking of you guys xKayla Christiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11856116143626970265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-36471229213014093792011-11-19T08:44:46.531+11:002011-11-19T08:44:46.531+11:00I care Lisa, and Noah is constantly in my heart.
I...I care Lisa, and Noah is constantly in my heart.<br />I can't bear to see you all so sad, and if I could take away the pain, I would not hesitate to do so.<br />I wish I could take you on my lap, and comfort you when you were a little girl.<br />You were the same age as Harri when Daniel died, so I know how Harri is feeling as you went through the same emotions and feelings as well.<br />You also said that your friends didn't like you, and you would want to take all your dolls to school with you, and it just broke my heart.<br />I know that you need to talk about him, and it hurts that the world 'goes on'<br />I couldn't believe that even the birds could sing!!<br />To lose a child is the hardest thing to bear, bar none.<br />We are told to bear each others burdens and mourn with those who mourn, and as sad as you are now, you will all grow from this, and you will know how to give comfort to other people.<br />Again, Noah is always in my heart, and you and Aaron, Jae, Harri and Kobe.<br />I cradle your tender hearts in mine every day, and every minute.<br />Love Mum.<br />xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-12706660531162277182011-11-19T07:32:40.910+11:002011-11-19T07:32:40.910+11:00Lisa,
You are never far from my thoughts. Death ...Lisa, <br /><br />You are never far from my thoughts. Death is not something people want to talk about, the death of a child is even worse. How taboo, you just don't want to go there but every parent which as lost a child and every child which has lost a sibling wants to talk about it. You want to talk and talk and talk to make sure the memories never fade not just for you but so that you can make sure that everyone else also remembers. It pains you to have to remind people that it has only been six weeks, six very short weeks which has turned your life into a spin and you will never get that life back again. <br /><br />You then get to 3 months and 6 months and every month after and every year after and find yourself still longing to hold your child or your brother in your arms. Wondering what life would be like if they where still here. Each celebration in life is mixed with 'If only they could be here too'.Princesses in waitinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09205808140529372725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-46332199155109261952011-11-19T07:20:36.594+11:002011-11-19T07:20:36.594+11:00I often think time moves differently for those gri...I often think time moves differently for those grieving. Those that are closest to Noah (your and your family in particular) will grieve a lot harder and longer than those who are not. And that is understandable. But you are right when kids do not understand that it takes time to look back at the joy Noah bought to your lives without sad tears.<br /><br />It's hard I guess for us on the periphery of Noah's life to understand and accept that grief moves at different speeds.<br /><br />I have a lot of admiration for the strength and courage you all had through Noah's life and passing. I admire the way you concentrated on the good things and concentrating on the days one at a time.<br /><br />I am grateful for your blog as it has taught me many things and has helped me to understand so much.<br /><br />With much love<br /><br />LizzyLiz Gilesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-47877952133028092302011-11-19T07:07:58.640+11:002011-11-19T07:07:58.640+11:00It is so hard when the world moves on as if nothin...It is so hard when the world moves on as if nothing has happened and your pain hasn't lessened, but rather increased. It seems to be a societal norm that there is a certain time frame for when you can be comforted or talk about your loved one. Sadly there is no time frame in grief and you will forever want to talk about Noah and have him remembered as part of your family.<br /><br />It is 13 years next month since our daughter died and I can honestly say while day to day life becomes easier the pain doesn't change. We also had people who didn't say anything and 'friends' who we saw cross the street rather than talk to us. <br /><br />Within my grief journey I have found courage to just speak about her and not wait for others. I have learnt that while sometimes it causes the other person immediate discomfort if you let them know you're ok talking about your child they relax and talk. I explain often that they don't make us cry, if we have tears they were already there but in speaking about her they have helped release them. There is a beautiful quote "The mention of my child's name may bring tears to my eyes, But it never fails to bring music to my ears...", I printed this nicely and had it framed and it hung in our house for the first few years, just to let others know we want to hear you talk about her.<br /><br />My heart breaks for Harri, they say that adults who are grieving have a mental age of 8 in the beginning. The brain has so much to process add to that Harri is already young and I think it would be normal for Harri to regress a little. Our son was 4 and he regressed for a few months. <br /><br />I wish you all peace and understanding as you continue this rollercoaster ride of grief.handinhandaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00433309555857325268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-34178123949263001552011-11-18T23:51:24.908+11:002011-11-18T23:51:24.908+11:00I wish I could make everything all better. xxI wish I could make everything all better. xxSimone Triffitthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09456303696623749885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-51592855447213359102011-11-18T23:07:23.377+11:002011-11-18T23:07:23.377+11:00When I read everything that you express, it strike...When I read everything that you express, it strikes me that this is probably how a lot of people feel when losing someone that they love so much. I also think that lots of people probably read the blog, but don't make a comment. As I have read your blog I keep thinking how hard it must be for your family not having Noah around, and in some ways how empty you must feel. I love your honesty.Lottihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08590398670143200396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-62853860162560162442011-11-18T22:52:08.237+11:002011-11-18T22:52:08.237+11:00breaks my heart what Harri is feeling. Think abou...breaks my heart what Harri is feeling. Think about ya all the time Lisa. Love ya heaps xChelsea Parsonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03587797817819462044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-44228647418029342862011-11-18T22:08:44.749+11:002011-11-18T22:08:44.749+11:00It is 3 years since my parents passed. Knowing I W...It is 3 years since my parents passed. Knowing I Will be with them again helps. But just today, Sam and I were tending to some chooks needs. After Sam left I had a weep and have felt bad most of the afternoon feeling sad. as it was something I had done with my dad. You always have times like this. It is just no one else knows. Hope it gets easier for Harrri I feel for him and wish I could help Jenni KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-2128271671595427332011-11-18T21:42:02.264+11:002011-11-18T21:42:02.264+11:00Love you xLove you xmake it perfecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04318284786031318188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-39145384791528012382011-11-18T20:53:20.742+11:002011-11-18T20:53:20.742+11:00I STILL, so so so many years on, have Daddy moment...I STILL, so so so many years on, have Daddy moments where I just want to nestle into his bristly beard and smell the scent of sweet fresh cut grass on his clothes.<br /><br />These are the moments I cherish now, because I am reminded of how safe and happy he made me feel.<br /><br />Its so hard for little people. My heart really does go out to all you guys.<br /><br />Love xbooqiboutiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01663817247055573197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-19506021783819433592011-11-18T20:17:59.148+11:002011-11-18T20:17:59.148+11:00Hey Lisa,
You have documented Noah's life so ...Hey Lisa,<br /> You have documented Noah's life so well that I feel I know a part of him. When I look at his eyes dancing, his smile and love for you all in the videos and the love you show one another I don't think you can ever forget him. <br />I haven't seen you in 10 years, yet I see you as the Lisa I remember at school. The Lisa who was always laughing at something, the Lisa who was kind to everyone. I feel like I am invading your grown up life but I want to read and I do read because I love your story of your family life- the good, sad and crazy dancing! <br /><br />I cannot even comprehend the pain you are feeling right now, but it effects me and I hug my boys a little extra everyday. I am so sorry you and your family have to go through this but you are so open and loving and your strength is larger than your feelings at times.<br />Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and I am sure hundreds of others that read you blog and never comment. <br />From your very old High school friend and part time blogger Camilla xCamilla Bakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07864345613638162188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-7079924748878763582011-11-18T19:55:05.026+11:002011-11-18T19:55:05.026+11:00I often think of people who have lost someone they...I often think of people who have lost someone they love and I often think other peoples lives go on and those people that are still sad maybe wish time would stand still for them long enough for the pain to go away. I look forward to your fb updates . I think of you all everyday and your lovely boys and think how strong you all are. You are a very strong person and you have your faith and for people like me as much as we love looking at your updates it makes me sad that you wonderful people had to go through that. Keep posting as I lwill be looking for you to do so. Xx DonDonna Wadleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-14556477687294989422011-11-18T19:50:31.750+11:002011-11-18T19:50:31.750+11:00So sad that Harri is feeling like noone cares at s...So sad that Harri is feeling like noone cares at such a young age. And harder still for you guys that this world keeps rolling on, when yours has almost stopped. always in our prayers Lisa - love you guys xRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14715548231328080856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-82633726462611835472011-11-18T19:31:40.600+11:002011-11-18T19:31:40.600+11:00Harri's face in that photo just breaks my hear...Harri's face in that photo just breaks my heart.<br />A lot of people don't know how to cope with the grief of their friends and loved ones and don't like to talk about death in case it makes those grieving sadder when in truth, nothing can make you sadder, but them acknowledging your grief can actually help you. I can't even begin to imagine your pain.Kylie's bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05815841283049515490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-18713643530272617482011-11-18T19:31:27.375+11:002011-11-18T19:31:27.375+11:00Lisa, Aaron and family - I check in every day into...Lisa, Aaron and family - I check in every day into your Blog to see how you are going. You are in my thoughts and prayers - I've Put your names on the Prayer Rolls again. Can only say "Love you" and give you a hug next time I see you.<br /><br />Ali<br />xxxoooxxxoooxxxoooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-20784706231193124542011-11-18T19:21:03.165+11:002011-11-18T19:21:03.165+11:00I have no idea who the heck POSS is or why my comm...I have no idea who the heck POSS is or why my comment has been attributed to them!!! Must be Gremlins on the loose in blog world!<br /><br />BlancheAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-17636647217012334902011-11-18T19:17:08.457+11:002011-11-18T19:17:08.457+11:00I have been thinking about you and this very thing...I have been thinking about you and this very thing just recently. I have been reading an interesting book 'Mourning with those who mourn' which is a compilation of experiences and perspectives on grieving all from LDS families, couples and individuals. It is a very emotional and spiritual read. You have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly and I want you to know that there is no way Noah could ever be forgotten. He made too much of an impact on everyone who knew him and your family. Yes, life does go on and that's hard because so much has changed for you and you have some huge adjustments to make in your life but I'm sure you know that whilst it's hard to see everyone around you acting like nothing ever happened, there are many friends and family who love and care for you and are thinking of you and praying for you and your family. We do still care and love you xxxPOSShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05679028611685050549noreply@blogger.com