tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post2642788588256088443..comments2024-01-10T18:49:06.282+11:00Comments on The Kings: I miss my Daddy so muchThe Kingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18086956817658615731noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-25021726319699560952012-09-01T13:06:05.696+10:002012-09-01T13:06:05.696+10:00Hi, my name is Angie and I too stumbled upon his b...Hi, my name is Angie and I too stumbled upon his blog a few months back. I have 3 sons ages 8, 5, and 2, they challenge me in so many ways and I'm so grateful to be their mom. i just wanted to tell you I think your very brave and I think you are doing an amazing job raising these beautiful children, you inspire me to do better and you help me appreciate the simple things in life. i wish there was something I could say or do to help you through this crazy hard adjustment time. <br />Take care...Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10325022532714297233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-25398789386880423732012-09-01T05:36:47.495+10:002012-09-01T05:36:47.495+10:00I just prayed a little prayer to our Heavenly Fath...I just prayed a little prayer to our Heavenly Father for strength, wisdom and comfort for you in Jesus' name, amen. xo. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-15013988158342584032012-08-31T23:33:26.484+10:002012-08-31T23:33:26.484+10:00Thank you for sharing. Kobe carrying the photograp...Thank you for sharing. Kobe carrying the photograph with him was just so tender and also a reminder of how resourceful children are and how they are not afraid to show their feelings. I am learning so much from you, you are a wonderful woman!Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18392902414136252940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-2059983960787557402012-08-31T16:22:06.566+10:002012-08-31T16:22:06.566+10:00Kobe is such a blessing to you and the boys ...but...Kobe is such a blessing to you and the boys ...but he has the Mother of the Year...dont forget what an awesome MUM you are Lisa...Nettie's Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05150859467690787567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-2786722464927927812012-08-31T15:32:00.108+10:002012-08-31T15:32:00.108+10:00Hi Lisa, I was put into your page by a friend,
I k...Hi Lisa, I was put into your page by a friend,<br />I know what you are going through I lost my wife of 18 years on the 22/01/2012 and miss her every moment of every day. After reading your page I think that I am lucky my kids are a lot older than your little ones, but like you we still go through the stages of loss, the one still at school has turned very quite and will not talk about it at all so that in it self is worrying. And the other teenager has just had a baby so that is a whole new problem.<br />I guess you are a but like me having to be the one to hold it all together tough job at times. So we carry on my release is at night in my room so I can greve without anybody having to are me.<br />Our thought are with you just keep getting up every morning that's all I can offer.<br />I will not give you any of the sayings I am sure like me you have heard them all, people think by telling them it helps so I just say thanks but really I Al over most of them.<br />Hope you get through this and think of the kids that's what keeps me going.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-18805409523463523462012-08-31T14:56:12.211+10:002012-08-31T14:56:12.211+10:00Dear Lisa! I've said it before, I think, but I...Dear Lisa! I've said it before, I think, but I'm just so glad you know God. And that your boys' will grow up knowing where they can find peace & strength during tough times... This hurts even to read, and so knowing you're living it, that your boys and you are hurting so much - my goodness! I pray that darling Kobe will continue to express himself, as you go about guiding him in the loving way I believe - through your writing - that you do so beautifully and with such devotion... You are all in our prayers. Much love, Naomi G. XAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-19305162250906986812012-08-31T13:45:08.265+10:002012-08-31T13:45:08.265+10:00It is so sad to read all of this. xxxxIt is so sad to read all of this. xxxxRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14715548231328080856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-72512948141270562012012-08-31T11:18:07.382+10:002012-08-31T11:18:07.382+10:00Hello
My name is Susan and I live in Sydney, NSW...Hello <br /><br />My name is Susan and I live in Sydney, NSW. I found your blog a few weeks ago and have been moved in so many ways by what you and your family have gone through together. <br /><br />I am very sorry for the pain and sadness you have all experienced and wish I could take it away for you. I admire how you have coped and how you have written about your situation here on your blog. <br /><br />I think you are doing very well and are a wonderful mother to your sons. You have a beautiful family and so many precious photos and memories. <br /><br />Sending you lots of warm wishes and positive vibes. Thank you for sharing with us here and making me appreciate everything good I have in my life. <br /><br />I have learnt so much by reading your blog and am glad I found it. <br /><br />From Susan McGuire xxooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-7030263397816125492012-08-31T06:14:51.064+10:002012-08-31T06:14:51.064+10:00What a darling boy. I agree, grief is strange and...What a darling boy. I agree, grief is strange and at times very hard to deal with, it can hit you out of the blue and so suddenly. I have had a few days of lots of tears grieving for my parents and they died 8 and 2 years ago, at least I like you and your boys have happy and loving memories of our loved ones. To loose a parent and brother as young as your boys are is just so hard. Love and prayers come your way<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10497576395358341846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-47090030366128702772012-08-31T03:01:02.944+10:002012-08-31T03:01:02.944+10:00How painful for both of you. It's the hardest ...How painful for both of you. It's the hardest thing of all to see our children sad and not be able to do much about it.<br /><br />"/Susan Andersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16049586085703324088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-30134934185155073642012-08-31T01:12:09.687+10:002012-08-31T01:12:09.687+10:00Poor Kobes! Poor all of you! It just doesn't...Poor Kobes! Poor all of you! It just doesn't seem fair so much of the time :(. Hugs and prayers to you all.Captain and First Officerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07150002437694314646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-69689916296998226032012-08-31T00:32:03.985+10:002012-08-31T00:32:03.985+10:00Oh I'm so sorry it's so hard... It's h...Oh I'm so sorry it's so hard... It's heart breaking to help your children grieve while also grieving yourself. Sending all my love...Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09392694404428255821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-26356875575078111052012-08-30T23:27:25.146+10:002012-08-30T23:27:25.146+10:00Oh, our poor little man, it breaks my heart to see...Oh, our poor little man, it breaks my heart to see him miss his so loved Daddy,so much.<br />Sometimes when I am at your house and I have seen him playing in his sandpit that Aaron made for him, I have to take a deep breath, because it makes me so sad watching him sit out there by himself.<br />He is so proud that Aaron made it for him.<br />Grief is so strange, with all it's waves and surges.<br />He is the dearest little boy, and it must be so hard for him, and you too.<br />Love Mum.<br />xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-50355784391260660292012-08-30T23:09:48.497+10:002012-08-30T23:09:48.497+10:00sweet little tyke...
bless you both.sweet little tyke...<br /><br />bless you both.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15616038477865625828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-3232964972397253232012-08-30T22:19:25.567+10:002012-08-30T22:19:25.567+10:00Keep going Lisa! You are doing such a great job an...Keep going Lisa! You are doing such a great job and your boys are testament to this. Keep cuddling each other. One day at a time...xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-87558358783643544122012-08-30T22:07:53.542+10:002012-08-30T22:07:53.542+10:00So sad Lisa, and so hard for you as a mum to deal ...So sad Lisa, and so hard for you as a mum to deal with, especially when you are dealing with your own grief and sadness. Love to you all and my prayer is that your family will be healed by love with time. No words can make it better for you and that is the hardest thing of all.Lottihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08590398670143200396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-29272047499672433382012-08-30T21:43:22.481+10:002012-08-30T21:43:22.481+10:00I have no idea if this idea will help or not... bu...I have no idea if this idea will help or not... but would having something he could take his frustration out on help (i.e. one of those little workout/punching bags) ? <br /><br />I keep hoping that my boys would demonstrate a solid reaction - that they would give me some sign that they are working through things and they'll come through okay at the other end. <br /><br />It sounds to me like Kobe is actively working through his grief, and maybe you can redirect some of the negative aspects (anger/frustration/hitting etc) into something more positive. Just a thought anyway.Samnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-3569092595060366742012-08-30T21:17:01.750+10:002012-08-30T21:17:01.750+10:00Oh Lisa, this made me cry....really cry....bless h...Oh Lisa, this made me cry....really cry....bless his heart....what the psychologist said is so true, kids especially little ones see life so simply...bless you and your boys...I don't know how you do it xxxxNoelenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09767132409187906042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8492407674501440952.post-80469315858307988062012-08-30T21:11:01.747+10:002012-08-30T21:11:01.747+10:00Lisa, you don't know me but I, like many peopl...Lisa, you don't know me but I, like many people, have been touched by your story. This just breaks my heart - as Mum to a 4year old I can only begin to imagine what Kobe is going through. I don't really know what to say but I wanted to say something - for you to know that someone else cares and will be praying for you and your boys tonight. With love, LouisaLouisa Clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01504106677453816810noreply@blogger.com